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I was uncertain what to expect or what I would feel when I first signed up to do coaching with you. It has proven to be an amazing experience and I’m only beginning to realize how powerful an effect it will have on my life. It’s been two months since we started, I already feel more grounded in my sexual exploration. It feels like my body and mind are on a journey together to discover my sexuality and desires, rather than feeling my sexuality as totally dissociated from the rest of who I am. I am more at peace with my body, more comfortable looking at myself, more curious about moving and touching my body, expressing myself in a more physical way, being aware of my body rather than living life as a spirit or head dragging along a body.
I wanted to express deep gratitude for the coach that you have been. I see now that I’ve been waiting to really invest in a coach until I found one that I feel could really handle what I would be bringing them. I knew that the coach would have to be made of some really strong stuff – coming out of a background of extreme, abundant, and unique trauma of a being tortured by a criminally insane parent -I knew a lot of intense stuff would come up that a coach would have to be really solid to know how to handle it. I have gone thru so many therapists because so many people just didn’t have the skills to really grasp the level of trauma (I know have a great therapist in addition to working with you) So, I want to express my deep gratitude to you for being the angel who didn’t turn away from all the stuff that working with me has come with – I literally feel like I am coming back to life again – like I’ve landed on the shore again after feeling like I was trying to keep afloat in a violent sea – You have given me gifts that are priceless and I am deeply touched and bow a huge Namaste to you.
Destin, I owe you a tremendous debt of gratitude for helping to set me on this path. The people in my life whose lives have changed, often painfully, owe you thanks as well, though you may never receive thanks from them. Their lives have been put into alignment. Cheri is happier than ever with her new life, it’s where she’s meant to be. My married friend is finally able to let go of her decades-long fantasy of me, face her marriage honestly, and build the foundation of a truly fulfilling life. Many others, old and new connections, changing as I follow my heart and move further along my path. And the real magic is yet to come.
There are many coaching/mentoring approaches which provide clients with the tools and concepts to address the many spokes that comprise the wheel of Life – the problem with a great number of these teaching models is that the clients become trapped in the ideas themselves, and adapt their dreams to the framework, rather than adapting the methodologies to their own inner voice. Destin Gerek approaches his work from the opposite direction – his carefully-structured questions and guidance all revolve around freeing the individual from preconceived notions of the ‘right’ way to break through self-limiting beliefs and energetic blockages. In this way, I found myself able to avoid becoming ‘mastered’ by the process, and instead, was given the confidence and guidance to take control of my own self-actualization and soul values identification journey. When I had done so, Destin was there to provide insight into how to continuously reinforce these “inner knowings” and offer frameworks to build upon my personal revelations. In addition, Destin’s background in such fields as tantric intimacy and eastern bodywork disciplines means that his clients receive a very powerful knowledge base for accessing the manifestational power of the present moment through becoming fully-aware of the deep wisdom that resides in their bodies. His compassion and commitment to service represents the kind of integrity that is required from those who are offering the depth of transformational change that his services can provide to individuals from every walk of life.
Thank you! You are a magnificent man! Working with you has been incredibly FUCKING motivating. I really appreciate all that you do. (And I don’t mean just for me) This work is really helping me reignite my own creative cauldron. Places long stuck are FINALLY moving!
I am extremely fortunate and grateful to have been able to experience Destin Gerek’s coaching work, and it has been life-changing. Thanks to his coaching, I have experienced changes in my sexuality, my mindset and my way of being that have been amazing. I’m experiencing a far deeper level of presence, peacefulness and confidence, in my sexual relationship and in my way of living, than I ever knew possible. Moreover, Destin’s coaching has given me the tools to continue to transform my life in ways I want going forward, now I’m truly guiding my life. Destin’s approach is about making changes from the inside-out, based on what works best for the individual client. His work is very personalized and non-judgmental. He acts as a guide, offering me tools and encouraging me along my individual path, instead of some rigid, cookie-cutter program. He’s given me the tools to change how I’m being inside, and that has led to tremendous changes in my life “just happening.” Change feels very natural and fun. Pulling from a wide array of disciplines, Destin offers a very holistic approach. I’ve experienced growth in finding my purpose, subtle energy movement, sexual connection, Tantra practice, cultivating and deepening presence, enhancing my relationship connection with my wife, deepening my self-confidence, and self-expression. I also enrolled in the Orgasmic Mastery course. Thanks to this program, I discovered non-ejaculatory orgasms and male multiple orgasms and expanded my sexuality in ways I couldn’t imagine when I signed up for his course. Thank you, Destin – this work has blown open the doors of my life!
Thank you for an amazing retreat Destin. And thank you to all the men who so gracefully and authentically showed up, in every moment. Eager to grow, loving, kind, compassionate, helpful, strong, beautiful. Those are the words I would use to describe the men I experienced. I was so blown away at the container that was created during my experience as a demo. I am highly expressive and they stayed grounded and centered and in love which contributed to my comfortability expressing such a wide range of emotion. I thank all the men who participated as it was the collaborative desire for growth that brought out the potency of the connection. And I thank you for answering the call and standing up for truth, authenticity, and deep loving connection. I appreciate your voice being in the world. You inspire me.
The VIP Full Day Intensive was a truly remarkable adventure of discovery, inner reflection, coaching, pushing limits, feeling my fears and being in my power. Destin is fully committed to coaching me in my journey of understanding and achieving my desires and passions. This day together was a perfect opportunity for delving even deeper into the myriad of complexities known and unknown which are essential parts of the big picture of my life. Destin teaches from his experience of having “been there” himself, from the wealth of training he has taken and from his life lessons of boldly expressing his own passions. He is open, real and honest in expressing both his truth and reflecting what he sees in me. He effectively blends compassionate listening with a call for action The lessons learned will unfold with time as I continue to process the experience, internalize the deeper understandings developed, make changes to my life and address the fears identified. I look forward to implementing a bolder plan for my future and realizing my visions, with this VIP Full Day Intensive as an exceptional and transformative part of the journey. I’ve enjoyed the journey as well, in part due to a perception that we are both similar in so many ways and yet with very different experiences of expressing ourselves in the world. This is a great example of how I could show up differently in the world. I am honored to call you my brother, something I have rarely felt with others. Namaste, Art
“I felt I made quantum leaps in my awareness, control and not least, enjoyment! I felt the material was/is/will continue to be valuable. I can already tell that as time passes, I will only deepen my appreciation and experience.” – R.S.
The length of the course (at first intimidating) was perfect. It allowed me time to breathe, speed forward at my own pace and pull back when I didn’t have the time. I never felt as though I was ever off course. – J.M.
Thank you SO much for investing your time and energy with me. Our time together was priceless. There was so much good stuff that I have to go back and review everything once again, on my own time. I am proud to call you my teacher! – J.S.
Thank you Destin. I have reached new levels of communication, and pleasure like I’ve never EVER experienced in my life. It has been one of those life changing sorts of things. I want to TREMENDOUSLY thank you and given the opportunity to talk about you and send referrals, consider it done! – G.S.
I had a revelatory moment yesterday when you stood in the role of my sexuality and it occurred to me how beautiful it is, which I’d never realized before.
This course has been powerful for me in regards to clearing out personal cobwebs around my sexuality. It’s helped me really see what is there when I focus in on it and the regular practice keeps me really on it rather then being able to check out or avoid it. Thanks Destin!
This is a FANTASTIC course!! I so encourage everyone to do it now. Worth every cent! It has expanded my love life in so many ways; far, far beyond my expectations. Thank you Destin!! And as for results: my sweetie is LOVING it, and I am feeling my love life just light up and EXPLODE in so many great ways. One of the more empowering courses I have taken, and we are only 1/3rd of the way done!” I’ve always considered myself to be an ‘advanced’ lover and have even explored Taoist sexual practices and energetics for years already. Even having explored these realms before I’m getting so much out of this course! I am so enjoying the exploration- it’s fun, entertaining and empowering; and since I started there ABSOLUTELY has been an enhancement and upgrade in my life! From A+ to A+++. . .