My clients are Kings and Queens, powerful men and women who have achieved a level of success in their lives that most people will never allow themselves to even dream possible.

They’re not simply financially successful, but cultural influencers – business owners, celebrities, entertainers, professional athletes and community leaders.

These are men who could easily rest on their laurels and cash reserve, but instead come to me because they want to create something even bigger in the world.

And from this select group, I choose those who truly inspire me – inspire me with how they are showing up in the world, what they’re creating and what they seek to achieve with my help.

My clients already play a big game.

My job is to show these powerful, influential, inspirational people how to play an even bigger one.

I work with my private 1:1 clients by invitation or referral only.

They come to me because, like all kings and queens, they aren’t content achieving greatness in one aspect of their lives – they demand greatness in every part of their lives.

And they have proven to me their commitment to doing whatever it takes to achieve the highest levels of greatness.

“Working with Destin Gerek is the best investment I’ve ever made for spiritual & self development. His work is transformational and empowering.”
– Henry Manchester
San Mateo, CA

For those who are positioned to make a big impact on the world; I will make a big impact on you.

We go DEEP.

You will experience major accountability, but I am not an accountability coach.

I am here to help you transform your life both internally and externally.

We dive into the deepest parts of you that perhaps you’ve never even looked at before, let alone spoken out loud about.

We seek deeper spiritual truths AND we ground them into your body and how you engage with this material plane.

You will be given tasks to do and practices to explore.

And some of the most powerful parts of our work together will come in the form of an insight that suddenly occurs to you waking you up at 3am one night.

Normally once a week you have a conversation with me and you commit to specific actions to move you forward.

Within a coaching structure, your natural tendency is to pursue your goals and achieve them.

It’s hard, in fact very hard to keep your patterns and your life the same when you focus so much consistent attention on what you really want, and you make promises to a third party.

What does my coaching provide?

This is different for each client. You may be looking for challenge, accountability, direction, inspiration, focus, sounding board, support or validation.

You may want someone else to share your successes with.

Or you may even know that you are looking for a firm kick up the butt.

And, you want to learn skill sets and perspectives in a rapid manner that will transform your experience of love and life.

The bottom line is, you’re after a specific result that makes a difference in your world.

And above all – you want to have fun with it!

How does it work?

I work by phone and Zoom with clients from around the world.

Coaching consists of weekly phone/Zoom calls, and some in-person intensives, with additional unlimited laser email/phone support by request.

Coaching is deep, transformative work and my clients work for a minimum of 6 months to define, set, meet and exceed their ‘impossible’ goals: whether around your sexuality, your relationships, or your sense of yourself as a man.


“Working with Destin 1-on-1 has changed my life in more ways than I thought possible when I first started working with a coach. Destin’s attention to detail and custom program helped me tackle personal challenges with women that have affected me my entire adult life.”
–Jamie H.


If you are world-class, or you are ready to be, if you are feeling the call to create this high level of transformational change in your life, contact me for a complimentary personal consultation.

I rarely take on new clients who haven’t been referred to me.

My favorite clients are the ones who challenge and inspire me and are fully open to being challenged and inspired.

My goal is to select clients who are fully committed and will make the biggest impact in the world from our work together.

My coaching is not “by the book.”

Everything I do is carefully crafted for the individual in front of me.

And it is not for everyone, only the exceptional.

Are you ready to take your personal and professional life to the next level?

Contact me directly to learn more.