A Rare Opportunity for the Highly Successful and Discerning Man Seeking Mastery in Masculinity, Sexuality, and Relationships.

As an accomplished and introspective man, you have spent years investing in your personal and spiritual development. You’ve achieved a level of success that most can only dream of, and yet, there’s still a lingering feeling that something is missing. You recognize that a key aspect of your evolution lies in mastering your masculinity, sexuality, and relationships with women.

That's where I come in...

I’m Destin Gerek, founder of The Evolved Masculine and author of the groundbreaking book, The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs and the One She Craves. I offer an exclusive, highly personalized, and transformative Private 1:1 Coaching & Mentorship program for men like you who seek to unlock this missing piece in their lives.

My coaching is tailored to a select few clients each year, and if you’re reading this, you might just be the right fit.

“Working with Destin Gerek is the best investment I’ve ever made for spiritual & self development. His work is transformational and empowering.”
– Henry Manchester
San Mateo, CA

Working Together:

  1. Intimate Partnership: As your mentor, I am committed to forming a deep and meaningful connection, facilitating a genuine understanding of your unique needs and desires. This intimate partnership will enable us to work together to address the complex and nuanced aspects of masculinity, sexuality, and relationships in a safe, supportive, and empowering environment.
  2. Unparalleled Expertise: Drawing from my extensive experience and research in the realms of masculine and feminine dynamics, personal transformation, and sacred sexuality, I offer a level of guidance and insight that is unmatched in this field. Our work together will challenge you to explore new depths within yourself and to embrace the full spectrum of your evolved masculine power.
  3. Lasting Transformation: The insights and techniques we uncover together will have a profound impact on your life, leading to lasting transformation in the way you approach relationships, sexuality, and your own sense of self. You’ll leave our sessions with newfound confidence, clarity, and passion, ready to create the life and connections you’ve always desired.

How does it work?

Coaching is deep, transformative work and my clients work for a minimum of 6 months to define, set, meet and exceed their ‘impossible’ goals: whether around your sexuality, your relationships, or your sense of yourself as a man.

“Working with Destin 1-on-1 has changed my life in more ways than I thought possible when I first started working with a coach. Destin’s attention to detail and custom program helped me tackle personal challenges with women that have affected me my entire adult life.”
–Jamie H.

If you’re ready to claim your place among the evolved masculine elite and experience unparalleled growth in your masculinity, sexuality, and relationships, then take the first step by reaching out to me. This exclusive opportunity is reserved for those who are truly committed to their evolution and have proven their commitment to doing whatever it takes to achieve the highest levels of greatness.

My favorite clients are the ones who challenge and inspire me and are fully open to being challenged and inspired.

My goal is to select clients who are fully committed and will make the biggest impact in the world from our work together.

My coaching is not “by the book.”

Everything I do is carefully crafted for the individual in front of me.

And it is not for everyone, only the exceptional.

Together, let’s unlock the missing piece in your journey toward becoming the man the world needs and the one she craves. Embrace your full potential as a grounded, empowered, and purpose-driven man who can navigate life with authenticity, grace, and unshakable confidence.

To begin our collaboration, simply complete the inquiry form on this page, and I’ll personally be in touch to discuss the next steps in our journey together. Remember, this is a rare and exclusive opportunity for a select few, so don’t hesitate to seize the moment and unlock the door to your Evolved Masculine destiny.

Join me, and together we’ll co-create a life of depth, meaning, and unbridled passion that will leave an indelible impact on your world and the lives of those around you.

In service,
Destin Gerek

Founder, The Evolved Masculine
Author, The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs and the One She Craves

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I know that it isn’t always easy to fully see and understand what is truly possible. So, I am sharing with you something that a client of mine sent me, and has agreed that I can share. May you draw inspiration from it….
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“A trusted friend had suggested Destin could help me through my struggle with sexual stamina and performance, and in the process build up my self-confidence. My relationship with my wife, Eve, had stagnated. We were on the verge of divorce.

Now, six months later, did I get what I was looking for? In short: Yes, and my sexual “performance” was only the starting place on my path to finding the passion and purpose I’d been missing my entire life, despite being “successful” on paper. I had met all the criteria society set for having a fulfilling life, yet I remained unhappy.

Here’s some of how my journey with Destin unfolded:

To begin to address the issues I came to him with, I explored what Destin calls “Sexual Self- Mastery.” I learned about sound, breath, movement and visualization to gain both greater control and more pleasure.  I  learned through experience that my pleasure is not dependent on a partner, that I wasn’t bound by another’s participation or lack thereof. It wasn’t all about my wife and our haphazard sex life. My sexual power shifted to come from ME. I had been frustrated by her ‘control’, as I perceived it, and the lack of sex we were having.  I was in a mindset of sexual scarcity.  Meanwhile, my wife was triggered by my expectations which seemed to trigger her into relating to me as a predator. 

The situation I found myself in was challenging, to say the least, and drawing my wife into the process was pivotal for both of us.

Under Destin’s guidance, I made a bucket list of 100 dreams, fantasies, experiences, and adventures that I want to experience in my life.  The longest list was the ‘sexual adventures.’ This brought my wife into the process. In conversation with her about my list, it became clear that we both craved sexual adventure, a topic long-suppressed in our relationship.

The next few months brought incredible changes. First, in Costa Rica, Destin and I started to cross things off the list of 100. We had epic outdoor adventures such as rappelling down waterfalls, rock climbing, and cliff jumping.  Then we brought my wife into the process, and our relationship was cracked wide open, into both beauty and shadow.  I was asked to step into uncomfortable conversations that I didn’t realize were going to be uncomfortable. I did not see how repressed I was. Eve was challenged to do the same, to speak her truth and acknowledge the trauma she carried and how it was affecting our relationship.

Brought to this edge, I was asked, was I fully in this relationship? Or when shit hit the fan was I going to be out of there?

With some hesitancy, I committed to being all in on the relationship, at least until the end of our work together, recognizing that if nothing changed, or I felt the same ambivalence,  then at least I would have tried.  Then getting out would be done with awareness and understanding. 

With Destin’s guidance, Eve and I began talking about our relationship much more intimately, making sexploration a commitment, and recognizing that all of our respective travels had created so much of the disconnect that brought us into this work in the first place.  

Following our time in Costa Rica, I came to San Diego to work with Destin and a team of colleagues he had arranged for me. I released stories and ‘energies’ that don’t belong to me or aren’t for my highest good. I released the voices of my Dad, my ex-wife, Eve, and all my stories of inadequacy, abandonment, and the need to be needed.  I was led to rewrite the story and affirm who I am NOW.  This work was further grounded in our coaching work together with the addition of Destin’s partner, Elie, who would become an integral part of our work.

In an unexpected turn of events, I ended up in Toronto for 5 weeks supporting my daughters as they went through the final days of their mother’s illness, her passing and funeral.   I was aware of two things happening through this event: Firstly, that life is too short to get caught up in anger and frustration, in not living fully in what is important to me, and not giving a fuck whether anyone likes it or not.  This is my life. Secondly, I became aware of how I have held frustrations and anger in my body, and how the body speaks to me when I’m angry or frustrated, signaling to me that something needs to be spoken.  I saw this clearly while meeting with my family and people from my past at the funeral.  I realized that I had changed.  I was integrating all our work into becoming present to who I am, and not taking anything personally.   I was feeling in my body my reactions and emotions which inform my actions and behavior, I was learning to listen and not shut down. 

Eve then traveled to San Diego herself and began her own work with Destin, Elie, and their colleagues. She was immediately affected by the process, releasing traumas, stories and coming into ownership of her body and pleasure.  She shifted radically, born anew in her power and purpose.   

She brought this energy into our relationship and everything seemed to change between us.  I was able to be in support of her movement for her sake, without the fear of what might happen with this newly found liberation (very different than how it would have been for me in the past).  I was able to freely express my feelings, both the excitement and the fear, to talk without shame or embarrassment.   Eve wanted to be with me, to create intimacy and go further, for me to be part of her new awarenesses. ‘ Eve and I got together on a sexploration date and had a completely different experience, not the same old pattern sex, we changed things up, slowing down and playing. This was so different from all of the pressure that I used to feel.

This led to Eve and I coming together to celebrate the changes that have taken place over the past months.  We were invited into Destin’s home and playroom for a joint session. Working together, Destin and Elie created the space for us to explore what we’d learned in our individual journeys with them. We opened to each other in ways that surpassed all of our prior intimacy, held in the utmost care by this beautiful couple.  After our night at Destin’s home we continued our sexploration practice, and I was able pleasure her in ways I never imagined, with more stamina, confidence and playfulness than ever, over several hours of intense lovemaking. 

My life has changed.  I am a different man today than the man I was six months ago.  I have learned that there’s nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about in my life and what I want to experience sexually and otherwise. I feel good about the man that I am, I strive to live in integrity and when I falter, to clear up the mess when I’m out of integrity.  I am communicating my feelings, bringing up what’s triggering me so to work through it quickly and not hold on to resentment or anger or confusion.  I am becoming clear about my sexual desires and talking to my wife openly about them.  I am learning not to take things personally.  I am the river banks to my woman’s flow, whether it’s stormy rapids or gentle stillness (and everything in between). I’m meeting her feminine with my masculine.  I am getting to know Eve at a deeper intimate level, to feel her essence, especially now as she opens up more to her own pleasure and purpose.  We are exploring each other and talking about inviting another woman into our play.  We’ve opened up conversation about boundaries.  More and more conversation and communication, no shame or embarrassment. 

As I shift from scarcity to abundance, from insecurity and shut down to confidence and communication, from victim to opportunity, I am noticing that the focus of my being is also shifting.  When I’m not caught up in the stories of my inadequacy I have room for more productive and creative pursuits.  The world of possibilities is opening up in front of me.  I am exploring next steps, creatively and sexually.  I want to continue to explore sexual edges, I want to take the best care of my body as I can, and I want to have fun doing what I love – making things, being creative, and exploring my writing, coaching and service initiatives. 

Before we began our work, my life lacked passion, purpose, confidence, commitment, self-trust, and fun. I can now say with certainty that I have all of these. My relationship with my wife is stronger than it has ever been. I will be forever grateful that I had the courage to say “yes” to this adventure with Destin.”

— W.D.

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If upon the completion of our work together, you wrote your own testimonial, what do you imagine it would end up saying?